My first memory of legos dates back to Mrs. Baird. She was an old church lady who used to keep me from time to time. She had white hair and kept a plastic pail of the big legos in her closet. When she died many years ago, the pail of legos was bequeathed to me, and I kept it reverently like an urn, at least until Thomas got old enough to dump out the contents and all reverence was discarded. Her legos were once again in the hands of a child.
I’ve also kept a big plastic tote of my legos, mostly a jumbled mix of pirate Legos circa the 1990s in storage, waiting for Thomas to get big enough to graduate from the pail of big legos to my tote of little Legos. I gave it to him a few months ago, and have secretly found myself enjoying recreating my lego ships of olden times. We also got Thomas some small sets for Christmas, which, after building, he summarily destroyed with a monster truck and all the blocks made their way into my old plastic tote, young and old blocks intermingling. He rummages through this tote, makes his own creations, smashes them again, so on and so forth.

My wife finds pleasure not in building or smashing but in sorting. It is the strangest thing, but she is the type of person who doesn’t like peas to mix with corn or butter beans on a plate. I’m lucky because she generally brings order to my disorderly life, but occasionally she can go a little overboard, at which point she commandeers the whole dining room for three days in an effort to bring order to the jumbled mix of legos she has spread out over the table.
She had the look of a person obsessed so I didn’t say much. But she also had the look of a person who was enjoying her task, like she was putting together a puzzle (or deconstructing a puzzle?). In any event, she created a Dewey Decimal system for the lego bricks in our house, based on sets, like Pirates or Jurassic Park, and then miscellaneous bricks based on color. They are now all organized in Ziploc bags, in small plastic containers, and stacked on a shelf.
Personally, I don’t think I would have picked color to classify the bricks by–I think I would have chosen brick type–but let’s be honest, I would have never classified or brought order to anything, hence the jumbled mix of legos to begin with.
Building, smashing, sorting–it takes all kinds. We’re a family of lego lovers, each in our own way.



There’s nothing like lego…. SO grateful to have grandchildren I can steal it from! Prefer the freestyle one of my childhood though, even over my personal midlife Star Wars kits.
I had a lot of freestyle legos too. Over here, they sell those now as “Lego Classic.” I’m a huge Star Wars fan, but missed beginning of the Star Wars Lego era, so I don’t have any of those, but I’m sure Thomas will at some point.
Organizing Legos is a delightful task! Steven and Peter just jumble it all together, though. I bet Thomas and Peter would have a blast building and destroying together.
Thomas is an expert blaster and smasher. I bet they would!
You know Lego does a not too expensive Advent calendar? Not cheap, but not as expensive as you might expect.
I just checked and the price has gone up since we bought them for our daughter. https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/shopping/2025/11/29/lego-advent-calendar-2025/87418712007/
Every day has a little Lego project.
Maybe they knock the price down after Christmas and you could get one to stash for next year.
Also, one of the best things I did as a library manager was to get permission for my branch to spend money to create a collection of bricks to use for programs. It’s now available for use at any branch, and I regularly see programs where the kids can come and just use their imaginations.
I think they are the best kind of toy, allowing each child to approach them as they want. I loved them as a child and loved watching our daughter with them.
They are truly timeless.
Oh, wow, I didn’t know that existed. That would be great for Thomas since mini builds is where his skill level is now. Lego is such a massive thing now. I think our local Wal-mart has an entire aisle just for Legos.
Well, the calendars aren’t as cheap as they used to be. Nothing is, I suppose, but I know Darling Daughter liked them.